COMPASSION IS THE #1 TRANSFERABLE SKILL FROM MY LIST OF THE TOP 15
I changed careers from TV News to Book Publishing nearly a decade ago and thought it would be helpful to look at some of the traits and skills that have helped me with the transitions in two media careers. I think this advice can be applicable for many if not all industries!
HAVING A SENSE OF HUMOR — In the newsroom when the shit is hitting the fan and the reporters are all scrambling to get the story while we are live on the air we would often tell each other “it’s not brain surgery” No. Its. Not. Keep that in mind and try to look on the brighter side.
SCRAPPINESS — I formed the pep squad in 6th grade when I did not make the cheerleading squad. That’s a good example of this. I wound up with pom poms and a leadership role in the bleachers. Never. Give. Up. Find a way to get it done. Go in the side entrance. Take a break and start again fresh until you succeed.
PERSISTENCE — My nickname working on Tim Tebow’s first book was Mrs. Persistence. The publication stopped and started more times than Tim’s NFL Career, but at the end of the day, the book came out and sold more than 1 million copies. Do not throw in the towel if your gut says there is more you can do. If at first…
MANAGING UP — Bosses are people too. With real feelings and hearts made of things other than stone. Try to get in there and connect with yours. The last thing most bosses want is for you to be scared of them. Make yourself known for all the right reasons.
MANAGING OTHERS — Make sure you are kind and caring and helpful to everyone including the immigrant woman who empties your garbage pail each night. Know your subway token booth clerk, or your bus driver or the waitress at your diner and the security guard at your office. You are no better than them.
MANAGING ACROSS — Some of the best friends you will ever have are the people with whom you share office space. You spend more time with your team at work than with your family. Make it work. Get to know them. Look into their eyes when you talk to them and not into your phone. Work on getting over work-sibling rivalry.
CRITICAL THINKING — You cannot just wing things. You need to turn your focus to the task ahead and give it some thought. Bring in other perspectives. Take notes. Identify the problem and create a solution. Do not get lost in your thoughts. Turn them into action and accept the feedback you get and act on it.
WRITING WELL and CONCISELY — If you can write, you can make things happen. Write every day. Write emails to others but send them to yourself first. Edit your writing. Edit it again. Take the time to masterfully whittle your thoughts into the briefest possible argument or ideas. Sell your ideas through words. This skill will serve you for the rest of your life at work and home.
WRITING WITHOUT TYPOS — Just this week I received a pitch letter filled with typos and bad grammar. Don’t let it happen. You will wind up in the trash file. Clean copy matters more than you know. Have a friend proofread it. Check it three times.
MAINTAINING ALIEN STATUS — Do not identify with your captors. Do not be afraid to be the lone voice in the room. Think of the wildest ideas you can and you can always scale back. Do not let the eye-rolling of others stop you in your tracks.
WORK THROUGH THE FEAR — Fear is what holds us back from grabbing those dreams right off of the shelf. Yes, many of us suffer from fear of failure, or even fear of success. You do not have time to let fear rule you if you really want to accomplish great things, so smile and bear it. It always seems worse than it is.
HARNESSING YOUR INTUITION — You have to be open to the ideas that simply come out of nowhere. That’s why it is so important to keep an open mind and an open heart and to let the universe guide you. I know it sounds so “New Age” but it is actually true. We all have gut feelings and they need more TLC.
BEHAVING LIKE A JOURNALIST — Journalists do not wait for stories to land on their desks, or at least the good ones don’t. Chase the story or the idea. Get to know the people you find fascinating in or out of the office. Reach out to them. Invite them for coffee, or a long walk or a phone call that lasts more than a few minutes. Do more than text and email.
PLUGGING INTO THE ZEITGEIST — In many industries if you are not following trending stories every day whether they are on web sites, or blogs or twitter or fb or your favorite newspaper and magazine sites, then clearly you are in the wrong business. Make being plugged into what you do each day YOUR business.
PRACTICING COMPASSION — This is the number one most important skill. Read all about it, practice it, not only on others but also on yourself. We are human, we need to keep that in mind. Caring for yourself and your co-workers in a meaningful way means more than you can measure in an annual report.
